There are so many things I regret but more things I don't. Hmmm now what does that mean? Another fleeting thought. I can explain this one, I think.
Husband number 2 had been in a bad car accident before I knew him. He had been in a coma and experienced behavior change. I remember his parents telling me that he was never the same person after the accident. Forgetful, easy to anger, not very tolerant of many things. That all comes with a brain injury.
I would get so frustrated when he couldn't remember things. Getting through nursing school must have been a nightmare for him. I know how my short term memory is...I know how short term memory is LOL, had to do it (ya know the repeat of the sentence.)
Now that I had the "stroke" and have such a bad short term memory and I have a personality change, days I don't remember due to electrical malfunctions that wipe out memories, writing things I don't remember-this is not one of them LOL- and it is sooooo frustrating.
I have apologized to husband #2 before but I am apologizing again. Who knows how things would have turned out if I had been educated on his brain trauma. What is done is done and we have 2 beautiful children together.
Ladies, it is much easier for life to have your ex's as your friends. Besides who knows you better than them.......OH NOOOOOO LOLOLOL!
