Took a while but I'm back with All my ex's aren't from texas.
Took a minor gas and oil detour. I am good getting off the main subject.
Now, you know it'd wierd when your present husband (I love you honey-kiss up points LOL) and your ex husband are in the same room. That was wierd enough, I know! To turn to husband #3 and ask him about something in our marriage that was pertinent to the convesation with my present (and last) husband is just wierd. None of that made sense but you just had to be there. LOL It ended up a friend that was visiting said to me and husband #3, we sounded like an old married couple. I couldn't stop laughing, it was so wierd.
My children may not understand but I chose to put things that happened between husband #3 and me in the past. My kids know some of it and are wondering what I am doing. It's my choice to forgive but a harder time with the forgetting part. I'm working on it. I would rather have had an ex as a friend than not. Yes, there was one in all this story who refused to have that thought process but it was his loss and I had to respect that. I always tried to be a loyal friend even when our time was over. I'll try to leave it at that, try I said LOL. I have the up most respect for my friends.
Anyway, we had gotten used to and in the habit, even look forward to our weekly Wednesday visits with husband #3 or now known as my friend John. Other friends come around and we just shoot the bull, as we americans say. We laughed, we argued-hmmmm debated, and had a good cup of coffee. I do not make coffee (a request made by others LOL.)
There is only one Ex I haven't talked about, boyfriend or husband. I don't know that I could. I would just leave it at that for the moment.
Oh, jeez there was a mouse that ran across the top of the computer table, gotta go......Jooooeeeeeeeeee!
